This will teach you how to give you a completely different appearance to your WordPress site.
1) From Dashboard Select Appearance and then Themes.
2) Click Add New.
3) Search thru and look for a look that you like. Select one that has a top menu bar with menu options like the one we have now or the menu will go away when you load it
4) Click Install
5) When that finishes click activate
6) Log out and back in and see what site looks like
7) Maybe try one other look